To us, family means putting your arms around each other and being there.

I have already blogged today, but I have something I want to get off of my chest. This blog is going to be a personal one but I think it is the only way I can deal what exactly has gone on in my life over the last couple of months.

My family and I have always been close, no matter how much they get on my nerves, and recently my Dad got diagnosed with cancer. Hearing this, i was upset and didn't know how to deal with what was happening. It was a pure coincidence that they found out about the tumor he had in his kidney and I'm so thankful to the doctor who sent him for the tests, even though it was unrelated.

My Dad went and got the operation to remove the tumor and it turned out they had to remove the whole kidney. I was just glad it was something that he could live with only one of. He came out and I got told the truth about his operation which I found hard to handle. During the operation he had tomhave blood transfusions and it was really difficult to hear. I know people go through this all the time but when it's someone you know it's completely different.

To hats pretty much all I have to say and if anybody actually read this and cares my Dad's getting better now and has the all clear which makes me super happy. Now we just have to wait and see.